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I Uninvited My Best Friend From My Birthday Trip
A friend group trip to Vegas fell apart after one member told the birthday girl her itinerary was boring. Now she is not invited.
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👤 Cassie
I planned a four-day Vegas trip for my 30th birthday. I spent three months organizing hotels, dinner reservations, and a pool day. A week before departure, Priya sent a message to the group chat, without asking me privately first, saying the itinerary was too structured and she wanted to go out clubbing every night instead. The other girls sided with me. I told Priya the trip was not for her and she should book something else. She says I overreacted. I say she publicly trashed three months of my work the week before my birthday.
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👤 Priya
I sent one message saying I preferred more flexibility and maybe we could fit in at least one club night. I was not attacking Cassie. The group chat has all six of us in it and we have always discussed plans together. Cassie had booked every single hour without asking anyone else what they wanted. Nobody felt comfortable saying anything so I said something. Cassie then texted me privately and told me I was disinvited. From my best friend of eight years. For expressing a preference in a group chat.
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